OH THE LOVE, THE LOVE
We braced ourselves. We watched other people with their children. We took note of the things to watch out for. But nothing has quite prepared us for the story which unfolds whenever Max is around Pia.
Now multiply all that tenfold when Max is at home with Pia. He loves that baby in the most pure, astonishing way. He can’t get enough of her – he covers her hands and feet with little kisses. He watches everything I do with her and copies me in my words, tone and actions. He gives her toys to play with. He draws a chair up to her bassinet and settles her if she starts crying. He pats her stomach, and then makes her smile big broad smiles. He loves to lie next to her playing with her.
Does it sound idyllic? Yes. But if I ask him to Get. Off. Her. Now. one more time…This baby will surely be squashed with an overbearing over excited 3 year old brother at some point. Then again, if he treats the women in his life half as well as he treats Pia, he’ll break hearts the world over.
7 Comments:
Beautiful. Cherish it. My girls have a love/hate relationship, but I've got to say it is mainly love. They cuddle each other, tell each other they love the other, call each other "B" and "A" which is just heart warming. They are prone to the odd Bratz doll over the noggin, but they do kiss and make-up afterwards. The world of siblings is full of extremes.
Yes, cherish it while you can. My boys are 2.5 yrs apart and the older one LOVED his baby brother...when he was a baby. Now that little brother is 2yrs and can get into everything, not so much. Lots more arguing happens when the younger one gets mobile and into the "me"/"mine" stage.
But my two are starting to play together now, too. It's sweet to hear the older one showing the younger how to do stuff or creating a narrative for his younger brother.
Ah, your son sounds like such a loving, sensitive soul. It melts my heart. I hope my boys never lose that side of themselves.
What a lucky Mum you are to have two beautiful little souls. He sounds adorable and so caring what a sweet big brother.
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I hope it doesn't change as she grows older. Mine are 18mnths apart now 2.5 and 4 and most of their day is spent together in good play. We threatened to take our oldest outside to the naughty tree the other day. Our daughter became very upset at this threat and cried, "no, no I love him. don't do it"
I am under no illusions that this will last forever, but for now I am lapping it up. Max's version of 'love' is endearing, but slightly too close to medical suffocation at times so it's hard to be completely easy with it. We have our days when all we say is get off your sister, leave her alone, she's not enjoying that. But more often than not you'll look down and she's smiling encouragingly at him........
Jo - train pieces hurt more.
Tiel s-k - That's so sweet!!
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